"So if Rav Shach, let’s say, and the Lubavitcher Rebbe may have sichsuchim, some arguments; I don’t know if they have, but if they have some sichsuchim, it’s none of our business. It’s the fire of Gehenim to open up your mouth. Keep your mouth closed. It’s a tragic mistake to mix in.
And the wisest way is to say nothing at all, and to have the greatest derech eretz the greatest respect, for all those people who are recognized. After all, the Lubavitcher Rebbi is recognized by many people. And Rav Shach is recognized by many people. So we should keep our mouths closed and recognize both of them. That’s the way we should follow."
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“When Rav Shach and Lubavitch had differences, I came home, eager to hear my father’s take. He was a real baal hashkafah, and I was sure he would have insight into the disagreement, but when I asked him, he looked at me in astonishment. ‘What’s your last name, Itche Meir?’ he asked me, repeating the question a few times. I had no idea what he meant. Finally, he explained, ‘Is your last name Shach?’ he asked me, ‘or is it maybe Schneerson? How exactly does this machlokes pertain to you?”
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Thursday, April 30, 2020
The Essential Torah-Parshas Acharei Mos-Kedoshim- Rabbi Yochanan Zweig

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The Hasidic Rebbe Who Can Inspire Us All
THE HASIDIC REBBE WHO CAN INSPIRE US ALL
MAY 2ND, 2017
Earlier today, the last surviving great-great-great-grandson of the illustrious nineteenth-century Hasidic leader, Rabbi Yisrael of Ruzhyn, died at the age of 94.
Rabbi Yisrael Shalom Yosef Friedman Ben-Shalom was an unassuming and fairly anonymous man who lived in Gilo, Jerusalem, for the last few years of his life. Known as the “Pashkan Rebbe”, he was an enigma – although even the word “enigma” does not quite do his story proper justice.
It is no coincidence that this unusual rabbi died on the fifth day of the month of Iyar — the Jewish calendar anniversary of Israel’s declaration of independence in 1948.
Not only was he a lifelong dedicated and devoted Zionist, but in contrast to every other Hasidic rabbi of his pedigree, Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom treated Yom Haatzmaut (Israel Independence Day) as a religious festival, and recited the Hallelprayer with a blessing as part of his Yom Haatzmaut morning prayers.
Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom was descended from the most aristocratic Hasidic dynasty of all — Ruzhyn-Sadigur — whose founder, the aforementioned Rabbi Yisrael, was himself a scion — the great-grandson of Rabbi Dov Baer, the Maggid of Mezeritch, the leading disciple of the founder of Hasidism, Rabbi Yisrael Baal Shem Tov.
It was through the Maggid of Mezeritch’s single-handed efforts that the teachings of Rabbi Yisrael Baal Shem Tov were organized, propagated and popularized. From his “court” in Mezeritch, and despite mounting opposition from critics of Hasidism within the Jewish mainstrean, Rabbi Dov Baer turned his small parochial group of followers into a powerful movement within Jewish life, and it is as a result of his efforts that the Hasidic movement endured.
So who was his descendant Rabbi Yisrael Shalom Yosef Friedman Ben-Shalom, and how did this anachronistic personality evolve out of the background from which he emerged?
Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom was born in Bohush, Rumania, in 1923. Both his mother and father were descendants of Rabbi Yisrael of Ruzhyn, and his mother’s father, Rabbi Menachem Mendel, the acclaimed Rebbe of Bohush, was also his father’s first cousin.
At the tender age of nine Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom’s mother died, and he was brought up in his grandfather’s house, where at first he was taught Torah by an elderly Bohush Hasid who had tutored Ruzhyn family members for generations, after which he began private studies with his revered grandfather, to whom he became a devoted disciple.
In the late nineteenth century and early twentieth century, the Ruzhyn Hasidic leaders were already notorious for their enthusiastic support for the resettlement of Jews in the Land of Israel — unlike many of their Hasidic leader counterparts — and a number of them openly supported the Zionist movement after it was launched in 1896, a factor that set them apart from almost every other Hasidic leader in early twentieth century Europe.
The Bohush dynasty was no different than other branches of the Ruzhyn sect, and the young Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom was raised in an environment broadly sympathetic with Zionist aspirations for a Jewish National Home in Palestine that would be internationally recognized as an independent Jewish State.
It was probably this that inspired Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom to join the secular Zionist youth movement “Hashomer Hatzair” as a counselor, coupled with his family’s belief that religious Jews had to proactively engage with non-religious Jews in order to draw them closer to Judaism.
Nevertheless, it is hard to overstate the incongruity of the scion of such a distinguished Hasidic dynasty who had in no way abandoned his roots, aligning himself with a militantly secular Zionist organization that openly disparaged old-world Judaism, in favor of a Jewish “national” identity that rejected the ancient system of Jewish laws and customs.
During the Holocaust years, Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom escaped to Bucharest, Rumania, where he lived together with his immediate family. It was there, in 1944, that he met his distant relative, the Vizhnitzer Rebbe, Rabbi Chaim Meir Hager, also a descendant of Rabbi Yisrael of Ruzhyn, who passed through Bucharest as part of a miraculous journey that thwarted determined Nazi attempts to kill him.
As a result of this encounter, Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom also met Zipporah, the Vizhnitzer Rebbe’s youngest daughter, whom he married in 1946 very shortly after they had both managed to smuggle themselves illegally into Palestine.
None of their parents or family were at the wedding, which was performed perfunctorily by a Yemenite rabbi who happened to be on hand at the time.
In June 1948, the young couple joined together with a group of Rumanian and Bulgarian Holocaust-survivor immigrants who had founded a secular kibbutz called Reshafim in the Bet She’an valley, and they remained there for 18 years.
During this period the Friedman Ben-Shalom’s religious observance was confined to their home, while any religious celebrations – such as the barmitzvahs of their sons – were transported to Tel Aviv, where Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom’s father now lived, in close proximity to his brother, Rabbi Yitzchak Friedman, who had become the new Rebbe of Bohush.
In the late 1960s, the Friedman Ben-Shalom family moved to a religious kibbutz called Sa’ad. They also spent time in Marseilles, France, as emissaries for the Jewish Agency.
Keen to broaden his knowledge, Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom enrolled at Tel Aviv University’s Jewish History department, where he completed a Ph.D. on the subject of “Beit Shammai’s political influence in first century Judea”.
During the 1970s, after the passing of his father-in-law, the Vizhnitzer Rebbe, who, following the founding of the state, had become a leading voice in the ultra-orthodox non-Zionist faction within Israeli society, the Friedman Ben-Shalom family started to spend more time among the strictly-orthodox community, and to associate more closely with their prestigious Hasidic relatives.
In light of their familiarity and association with secular Israelis, Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom and his family acted as a bridge between secular Israeli society and the insular Hasidic world, diverse communities that were divided by a gulf of mistrust and antipathy – on both sides of the fence.
When he eventually retired from his role as an educator, Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom and his wife moved to Jerusalem to be close to their son Hoshea Ben-Shalom, who had set up an “urban kibbutz” called Beit Yisrael in the Jerusalem neighborhood of Gilo.
Remarkably, besides for being an ordained rabbi and a spiritual mentor to thousands, Hoshea Ben-Shalom is also the Chief Reserve Officer of the IDF.
Indeed, all the Friedman Ben-Shalom children are remarkable – deeply committed Jews as well as extremely accomplished in contemporary terms – bright, charismatic, inspired, inspiring, and proactive in their mission to find common ground between the Jewish past and the Jewish present, between the glory of Hasidism and the miracle of the State of Israel.
But their inspiration was undoubtedly their remarkable father, along with their esteemed mother Zipporah, who is a sister of the Vizhnitzer Rebbe* (Monsey, NY), as well as aunt to the Vizhnitzer Rebbe (Bnei Brak), the Satmar Rebbe (Monroe, NY), the Belzer Rebbe (Jerusalem), and the Skver Rebbe (New Square, NY).

In his last few years, Rabbi Friedman Ben-Shalom finally evolved into a full time “rebbe”, with his own “court” and hundreds of followers – and was known as the Pashkan Rebbe of the Ruzhyn Dynasty. He attracted countless Jews from every walk of life into his orbit – each one of them moved by his authenticity, and by his genuine love for every kind of Jew.
Anyone who encountered the Pashkan Rebbe immediately understood that here was a man who embodied a uniquely modern Jewish narrative – a prince of Hasidic royalty, a master of Jewish history, a soldier of Jewish destiny, and a proud Zionist who had worked the land, and helped to build the State, preparing it for the Messianic age from the ground up, and from the Heavens down.
The “Pashkan Rebbe” was a Hasidic leader whose life story can truly be an inspiration to us all.
הרב ישראל שלום יוסף פרידמן זצוק”ל, אדמו”ר מפאשקאן זי”ע ועכי”א
תהא נשמתו צרורה בצרור החיים
* Who was still alive when this article was written.
All credit goes to Rav Pini Dunner
Wednesday, April 29, 2020
17 Cheshvan Yahrtzeit the Ahavas Shalom
5586/1825
Harav Menachem Mendel of Kosov, zt”l, the Ahavas Shalom
Harav Menachem Mendel was born c. 5529/1769 in Kolomaya. His father, Harav Yaakov Koppel Chassid, was one of the closest Chassidim of the Baal Shem Tov and was the baal tefillah in his beis medrash. His mother was Rebbetzin Chayah, daughter of Harav Zalman of Kolomaya.
He married the daughter of his uncle, Harav Shmuel Simcha Zimmel of Kosov.
Initially, Reb Menachem Mendel learned and developed under his distinguished father. Later, he traveled to other leading tzaddikim of the generation, including Harav Ze’ev Wolf of Tcharni-Ostroha, who, before leaving for Eretz Yisrael in 5558/1798, appointed Rav Menachem Mendel to serve in his stead as Rebbe.
Reb Menachem Mendel was a close Chassid of Harav Tzvi Hirsch of Nadvorna, zy”a, mechaber of Tzvi Hashem Latzaddik. Reb Menachem Mendel journeyed to Harav Tzvi Hirsch of Nadvorna for 12 years.
Reb Menachem Mendel was an outstanding talmid chacham. His Torah learning took priority despite living in abject poverty for most of his life. He was known as a baki in the entire Torah, but most notable was his knowledge of Choshen Mishpat.
The avodas Hashem of Reb Menachem Mendel was intense and full of hislahavus. This was especially noticeable on Shabbos Kodesh, both during davening — particularly the tefillah of Kabbalas Shabbos — and during the tischen, where he spoke divrei Torah with fervor.
Reb Menachem Mendel was famous for his gemilus chassadim. He helped any Yid, most notably the needy of Eretz Yisrael. He took many orphans under his wing to marry them off at his own expense.
Among his leading talmidim were many who later served as Rebbes: Harav Tzvi Elimelech of Dinov (the Bnei Yissaschar), Harav Eliezer of Dzikov, Harav Naftali of Lizhensk, Harav Shraga Feivish of Bradshein, Harav Meshulam Nosson of Berdichev, Harav Menachem Mendel (mechaber of Derech Emunah), Harav Shmuel of Shinev (mechaber of Ramasayim Tzofim on Tanna d’vei Eliyahu) and many more, zechusam yagen aleinu.
Reb Menachem Mendel had two sons, Harav Chaim of Kosov, who wrote Toras Chaim, and Harav Dovid of Zablatov, who was the son-in-law of Harav Moshe Leib of Sassov, mechaber of Tzemach Dovid. Reb Menachem Mendel had an only daughter as well; her zivug sheini, Harav Gershon Ashkenazi of Kolomaya, mechaber of Avodas Hagershuni, put together and arranged his father-in-law’s sefer, Ahavas Shalom.
Reb Menachem Mendel was niftar on 17 Cheshvan 5586/1825 in Kosov and was buried there.
Zechuso yagen aleinu. All Credit goes to Hamodia.com
Monday, April 27, 2020
Rav JB Soloveitchik Says in Recording That he is Clandestine Chabadnik
I’m a Clandestine Chabadnik, Rav JB Soloveitchik Says in Recording
An extraordinary address by the Rav, Rabbi Joseph Ber Soloveitchik at a Chassidic farbrengen in Boston in 1968 dispels the foundations of the opposition to Chassidus and reveals that the reason the Vilna Gaon refused to meet the Alter Rebbe.
January 8, 2020

By COLlive reporter
An audio recording of Rabbi Joseph Ber Soloveitchik, the “Rav” who was the outstanding figure of modern Orthodox Judaism in 20th century America, is said to have profound historic significance as it authoritatively refutes the traditionally accepted basis for opposition to Chassidus.
The recording is of an extraordinary address that the late Rosh Yeshiva of Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary (RIETS) at Yeshiva University in New York City gave at a Yud Tes Kislev Farbrengen in Boston, Massachusetts in 1968 celebrating the Rosh Hashana of Chassidus.
In this captivating oration, Rav Soloveitchik dispels the foundations for this widely accepted approach to the opposition to Chassidus prevalent in the Litvish yeshiva world. Rav Soloveitchik’s authority in this topic is based on his family traditions, as a scion of the Brisker dynasty and a direct descendant of the most foremost disciple and primary spiritual heir of the Vilna Gaon, Rav Chaim of Volozhin, who founded the Volozhin yeshiva, which became the mother of all Lithuanian-style yeshivas.
In his talk, Rav Soloveitchik attested that his family tradition confirms the attempt of the Alter Rebbe to visit the Vilna Gaon in an attempt to persuade him to abandon his opposition to Chassidus (except that in the Brisker family tradition it was Rav Levi Yitzchok of Berdichev who accompanied the Alter Rebbe on this visit, whereas according to Chabad tradition, as recorded by the Alter Rebbe himself in his Igros Kodesh letter 52, it was Rav Mendel Horodoker).
The Rav then revealed that the reason the Vilna Gaon refused to meet the Alter Rebbe was because the Vilna Gaon was so awestruck by the holy countenance of the Alter Rebbe (which he saw through a crack in his door) that he felt that if he allowed the Alter Rebbe in, he would be persuaded to leave hand-in-hand with the Alter Rebbe and would (not only desist from opposing him, but, on the contrary, would) join him in spreading Chassidus
The Rav contended that although Rav Chaim Volozhiner wrote his magnum opus “Nefesh Hachaim” at the request of the Vilna Gaon with the express purpose to contradict and refute the contents of the Tanya and demonstrate that its philosophy is contrary to the accepted beliefs of Torah – in reality, the opposite is true and the Nefesh Hachaim overwhelmingly confirms the tenets, principals and beliefs articulated by the Alter Rebbe in the Tanya (and the areas of apparent disagreement are marginal and primarily semantical).
He then concludes that, based on all the above facts and factors, the historic opposition to Chassidus was unwarranted and all its tragic consequences in dividing the Jewish people into two hostile camps (resulting in such malefactions as the mesira of the Alter Rebbe to the Russian government and his imprisonment) was misinformed and misguided and only due to the efforts of “slander-mongers, troublemakers, psychopaths and corrupt individuals who found malicious delight in promoting feud and hate.”
Calling himself “a Clandestine Chabadnik,” the Rav said that Chabad chassidim who populated the cities in Lithuania and Russia where he grew up, were talmidei chachamim, lomdim and devout Jews of the highest caliber.
A Chabad chossid who heard the recording told COLlive.com that “It should be noted, however, that the Alter Rebbe wrote (Igros Kodesh of the Alter Rebbe letter 52) that there were irreconcilable differences regarding basic tenets between the Alter Rebbe and the Vilna Gaon (since the Vilna Gaon did not accept the kabbalah of the Arizal in its entirety).
As a reference, he pointed to the Rebbe’s letter to Rav Eliyahu Eliezer Dessler regarding the areas of agreement and disagreement between the Tanya and the Nefesh Hachaim in Igros Kodesh I:11 and 3:551, and also Heichel Baal Shem Tov vol. 4 page 39-48.
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